In the Lint Pile

English: A close-up of dryer lint

English: A close-up of dryer lint (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Just about all Manhattan neighborhoods are a mix. A mix of ethnicities, political views, religions, and socio-economic status. My neighborhood is particularly mixed when it comes to the latter. We have a high number of SROs. Single Room Occupancy hotels–boutique hotels, if you’re a naive young tourist who believes all the pretty pictures posted on the internets. Many times I’ve come across 120 pound tourists with 150 pound packs strapped to them, looking for the “boutique hotel” they paid for in advance, online, from their clean and comfy homes or universities somewhere in Europe, maybe the Netherlands. Sometimes I run into these same young tourists 2 days later in the drugstore, looking for products to combat bedbugs and lice.

Most frequently, SROs house those who have fallen from the fringe into the lint pile, a few house those have recently arrived in America and are first trying to climb up to the fringe.  Rent controlled, very cheap housing, what you get is one room and a shared bathroom and kitchen. Some are reasonably clean and safe, many are dirty, in desperate need of repairs, and not somewhere you’d like to find yourself–day or night. Many who live in the SROs are basically homeless, mentally ill, drug addicted, and either HIV+ or have full blown AIDS.

I’ll be honest, there are certain blocks I avoid walking on at night, even with Big Senile Dog at my side. As the economy has grown tighter, the problems and crimes that spill out of these buildings has risen. Most of the people who live in even the seediest of the SROs seem fairly harmless, I’ve lived here for years and so have they; I recognize their faces, those who aren’t drug or booze addled recognize mine. OK, so it was more than a little unsettling when Fatigue got a new puppy in his ground floor apartment and was assured a few weeks later by one particular man that he didn’t have to worry about said puppy while he was out at work–the man was watching him through the window, and he was ok. Ummm, thanks?

This summer, violent crime has escalated, there have been a couple of fatal incidents, and the city is planning to place an additional four hundred people in SROs in the immediate neighborhood.  Predictably, there are petitions circulating to stop this placement. Social service agencies place people in this housing, and it is great and necessary to have somewhere for the ill and indigent to go besides the front stoops of churches; but then they don’t provide supports to keep the people well, clean, or even safe. A Catch 22 that affects not only the people living in these buildings, but all living around them.

Some of the people living in the SROs are elderly, some work fringe jobs, some work regular jobs that just don’t pay enough for rent on an apartment, many live off their SSI/SSD checks and supplement by panhandling.  Ah, the panhandling.  “Mama, you got a dollar? How bout a cigarette?” Usually not, and usually, when I just keep walking, they’re asking the next person before I’ve even passed them. Sometimes it’s annoying, if the person in question decides to follow and continue asking for half a block, sometimes it pisses me off, if I say no and the person immediately switches modes from smiling, hand extended, “God Bless,” to snarling and “fucking bitch.” Sometimes it’s frightening. Flower Child doesn’t understand all the cues and clues, which seems to attract the most fractured of the crack addicts, “oh little Mommy, you’re so beautiful, I don’t have my babies anymore, can I touch your hair?”

When Man Child was little, he used to announce what we were having for dinner and invite the homeless he saw on our way home from nursery school to join us.


homeless (Photo credit: digitizedchaos)

A lot of my younger internet friends think of me as an ex-hippie.  Though I’m too young to actually have played on the streets of Haight-Ashbury, the politics and philosophies wouldn’t be far off, and it’s true, my favorite pair of jeans in high school was a pair I had tie-bleached with a friend in the basement. In the eighties and early nineties, I worked in social services where most of my jobs were a direct result of the push to deinstitutionalize the mentally ill. So I feel for all of those living in the SROs, had many opportunities to get to know and understand they aren’t just lint, these are people with histories, many of them histories that would make you lose your breakfast, and some, indistinguishable from the others, with histories that would be uncomfortably similar to yours.

The petitions want them placed “somewhere else.” Where? The people behind the petitions fear for safety, other vulnerable residents, and property values. They want them placed somewhere with enough security and supports to minimize these issues.  I would like that last part too, but where would the money come from to make that happen?

Tie Dye

Tie Dye (Photo credit: deborah.soltesz)

My left leaning, ex-too-young-to-have-been-a-real-hippie, ex-case manager, all too aware of how easy it can be to drop from the fringe to the lint-self wants to see more people placed in local SROs, campaign for donations and fight for the city to help them once they’re in. How can we not care, pretend they don’t exist?  But I’m also a mom who is thinking about an escalation of violent crimes,  Man Child and Nerd Child old enough and independent enough to be walking the streets on their own, and my vulnerable Flower Child.

What do you think?


  1. I worked with an organization that helps the homeless for 20 years. The first few years were as a support worker. And then subsequent years in community and public relations. I was also part of a neighbourhood agreement process when we wanted to build a new building to house the homeless…It takes a lot of time, a lot of easing the fears of community members, a lot of red tape, a lot of biting one’s tongue…but it’s worth it. People are worth it. There is no greater investment, that pays higher or more satisfying dividends, than to invest in a person’s life.


    1. I believe human beings are worth the investment, both as individuals and to our society as a whole. The friction here is that there is no building happening, and no money being budgeted to accommodate the new community members or the neighbors. 😦


      1. yes governments or municipalities not doing it…we were lucky to have some government support but I also had to do fundraising (capital campaign and raise 20MM) so lots of work yes!


  2. Oh NYC is a hell hole, but it seems to go through cycles, doesn’t it – great in the 50’s-60’s, feculent in the 70-80’s upswing in the late 90’s – mid 00′ and now back into the sewer. ten years from now it will have got itself back together – I imagine the glamor focus will have shifted to Brooklyn by then


  3. We don’t live in the city, but rather in a rural area of a town of 18,000. We can’t afford to live here, or anywhere really, on the amount of money we earn. Our lives have been decimated by the hailstorm of chronic illness, a storm that started 9yrs ago and has only built in raging intensity, and we cling desperately to where we are for the educational system in our district and close proximity to family. We need both.

    The fringe, the lint pile, seem to describe it so well and it’s certainly not limited to city living. Its a whole population out there, struggling to survive, barely hanging on to the fringe, their toes brushing the lint.


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